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It has been several years now, so I don't recall what is age-appropriate for your son, but it seems like his talks and book/books were insightful. We never allowed our son or two girls to get involved in these kinds of adolescent going together kind of things and they were so glad when they were older.One other thing I remember from this age is that while they boys feel all grown up and manly, they still need their mommy. Explain to him that dating is for picking the person that he is going to ultimately marry and that at 11 he is no where near ready for that and that he needs to chill out and be friends with girls and boys and learn to make those kinds of relationships first.I have always been as open & honest with him in regards to anything he has ever wanted to ask.
They need you to help them make long term goals and you need to help him aim higher than just hooking up with girls. They can only get somewhere if a parent takes them! My son who just turned 12 said he had 3 "girlfriends" last year. Cool" and I never heard a girl call the house for him or heard him call a girl. I personally am not going to let my son go on a "date" until he's going to high school.
If his friends are doing that then he may need to find a wider more diverse group to hang with. I have a friend who has 2 daughters that are just about my sons ages. He can meet a group of frineds at the movies that include girls, but not a one on one thing.
Get him involved in sports and church and other activities that are healthier and where he can interact with members of both sexes without the weird pressure of going out. That won't be the last time you hear that one you have to learn to nip that one in the bud.
Tell him that all the really smart beautiful girls are going to be in college and he does not want to be already tied down to somebody since he was 11 when he gets there.
Both of my boys were "going out" with girls at different times, but it didn't involve anything other than phone calls (monitored by us) and talking at school until they were in high school.
There is absolutely no need for alone time or unsupervised communication at this age!!!She would tell me since they were in 6th grade that someone was "going out" with someone. Call it overprotective, but I remember having a friend who got pregnant at 14.I was so naive that I couldn't imagine doing anything like that. Truthfully, I doubt if "everyone" is going out with someone.He had some things to say that really effected one of my boys.One of the things he said that I remember is that "we don't open the doors for women because they are women, we open doors for women because we are gentlemen." He also talked openly about the issues with sex and dating, etc.Even though he likes girls he is not allowed to touch anywhere inappropriate at that age.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating