Islam way of dating

But if the woman contacts the man directly, this is what leads to fitnah (temptation). He should not regard his material circumstances or anything else as a barrier.

The matter is simple, in sha Allaah, and if a person is content with little, Allaah will make him independent of means by His grace and bounty.

He just sends me E-mails every so often via internet, so that I know his news.

We have been in this love relationship for one year.

You can be certain that you will never find happiness except by obeying Allaah and adhering to the limits set by his sharee’ah.

The permissible ways are sufficient and there is no need for haraam means, but we make it hard for ourselves and the shaytaan takes advantage of that.

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We’ve both been through our own relationship failures and have learned so much in the process.

Pinay Romances might look like any other Philippines dating site. We (Martin and Stephane) created Pinay Romances to connect Western single guys looking for Filipino women to settle down with and have a loving relationship.

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Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: If love develops for a reason that is not haraam, a person cannot be blamed for that, such as one who loves his wife or his slave woman, then he leaves her but that love remains and does not leave him. The same applies if he glances accidentally then looks away, but love may settle in his heart without him wanting it to. In this case it is not permissible for the man to get in touch with the woman or for the woman to get in touch with the man, and say that he wants to marry her.

Rather he should tell her wali (guardian) that he wants to marry her, or she should tell her wali that she wants to marry him, as ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him) did when he offered his daughter Hafsah in marriage to Abu Bakr and ‘Uthmaan (may Allaah be pleased with them both). 13) Our advice to you is that it is essential to stop corresponding with this young man, and tell him that he has to propose to you through your wali, if he really does want to get married.

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