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People with this style are oftentimes torn about their feelings and do not know how to handle them.

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Jumping in the sack too quickly might send the wrong message.

New relationships are exciting, and there's big temptation to jump in the sack right off the bat.

She seemed very much as "into" the relationship as I was - sending loving texts and buying me gifts.

Then all of a sudden, as if overnight, she got cold and distant, and then she dumped me the next day.

As for why it is painful, you might benefit from reading some of my earlier posts (links appear below).

In a nutshell, the initial feelings of attraction that you experience in the early stages of a relationship have a strong biological basis.

Break-ups, as you know, are not easy, especially when the relationship seemed to be going so well.

You are asking essentially two questions here: 1) why she would have a change of heart so abruptly, and 2) why such a short relationship could hurt like a much longer term relationship. Given what you describe about your ex’s behavior, it is possible that she terminated the relationship because of having an avoidant attachment style, meaning that she is fearful about entering and becoming too close to others.

She also studies the role of power on relationship commitment. But I a lot of the psychological explanations (which often amounts to speculation with a bibliography) confuse the issue and make it more difficult for you, as a guy, to know what you did wrong and how to fix it next time around. To her credit, her recommendations for what you should do are fairly good, specifically the part about being more of a "mystery man."Your issue with this woman is actually very common among men. It might have been him, but without more information, we cannot assume she was also not a big part of this puzzle- there are many avoidant women out there too.

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