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However, it does strike me as though someone might just revert back to the "But I'm not a racist" rhetoric, at least at first. I wonder what George Lakoff would have to say about changing the racism conversation.

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I GUARANTEE the ALL of us still have some scar from k-12 that we carry around with us because unlike the scratch or cut you got, "word wounds" DO NOT heal as cleanly. JSmooth - those are wise word tools for MANY situations. I believe if people would just take 2 seconds to engage their "brain-mouth filter" before saying ANYTHING the world would be a much better place. of course its not the fault of any individual white folks, and of course they should try to examine how white supremacism has shaped their beliefs and relationships, and listen to people of color to support the struggle against white privilege, but until that has gone away they're still very much a part of that racism.

i dont like some white boy telling me how i should be having conversations about race, especially since you're convienently talking about it in a way that excuses you from being implicated as a racist.

Either you're lucky and you get a person who's willing to listen, or you're unlucky. This is mandatory watching for everyone to understand as you said to have a STRATEGY to approach the am I a racist conversation. I'm not sure if this is a issue or something to do with compatibility but I I'd post to let you know.

As soon as anyone says to me, "I am not a racist," please don't say that even if you are not.

Let's just say this re-affirms my hatred of being the only black person white people know. Holding people accountable for their words and actions does seem to be the appropriate approach. A case in point: A neighbor yelled to a brother driving too fast through our block..."you effing n" in front of our son and his son!! Hubbie had to go have that accountability chat and had him apologize to our son. I'm to start my own blog but I'm having a time between Blog Engine/Wordpress/B2evolution and Drupal.

The difficulty is for those that are holding the culprit to an accountability for said words or actions must maintain constant focus and verbal vigilance in order for it not to become about 'what they are'. But I know from experience that you can't allow your anger or emotional feelings that may come out to derail 'what they did' to become 'what they are'. Mind you we had just the day before, complimented him and his wife for being our 'saving grace' on the block! Of course the conversation went several times to his black friends and how much he is not a racist, but Chris brought it back each time to WHAT HE SAID!! Keep up the works guys I've you guys to blogroll.| ! The reason I ask is because your seems different then most blogs and I'm looking for something . Then people start picking sides and - boom- it's all over. I get so much lately it's driving me so any is very much appreciated.| Greetings! I don't think it's that there are people who don't know how to start the conversation and stay on point (in general). Its used to display a completely different point, but it reminded me of it. You're too right about the conversation being spun to "But I'm NOT A RACIST / HOW DARE YOU." Thing is they're ALWAYS going to come at it from that point of view, because being called a racist has become more taboo than actually being one. Please reply back as I'm create and where you got this from or theme . When someone fires an arrow into you, you don't try and find out who fired the arrow and what they are all about.concentrate on getting the arrow out. Jay, You're not speaking wrong, but it feels like you're speaking idealistically. ava, he's not arguing that whites are or are not racist, he's instead commenting on a strategic way to confront people when racism becomes apparent in their words or actions.

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